Love:
Thomas Aquinas said that love is willing the good of the other as other, really wanting what is best for someone else.
I’ve never found this to be more true till now, I’ve grown up thinking I knew what “love” is, because I’ve grown up with such love around me, but I never truly understood what it honestly meant. Surly I should have known since I have family and friends that love me. So why did it take me so long to comprehend what “love” really means? I mean it’s not like I’ve been cold hearted and hateful. Sure I’ve had my time when I wasn’t the best but does that mean I didn’t love? I didn’t love anybody and instead in a miserable state of mind and not realizing the negativity I was creating? I don’t think this was the complete picture, rather a partial image of destructive thoughts. I have loved my entire life, just didn’t recognize when I didn’t love. When I didn’t love myself for the mistakes I’ve made. When I didn’t love a friend ‘cause I thought they were being selfish when instead it was myself who was self-centered. When a stranger did something strange and I was quick to judge. Now, I’m not saying I’m perfect and I love EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE, but I am learning. Learning to recognize when something is done out of Love other than egotistical rewards. Self-gratification isn’t what I strive for; I don’t think it should be something you do your utmost efforts for.
Just a bit of food for thoughts: Stop and reflect on it and think about how love has been in your own life. Have you been wiling the good of the other as other? I know I have to remind myself to do this ‘cause far too often I tend to get lost in an ego-driven world.
This man has taught me so much, I don't think he realizes the impact he has been in my life. He has taught me how to love and that family is everything even when you feel the world is against you. He has taught me what hard work looks like. He has taught me how to be grateful and thankful for everything in your life, even when it feels like you have nothing. He has taught me that when you feel alone and fragile, you still matter to someone. Be brave, be strong, fight for what you stand for, love with all your heart, and thank GOD for it all.